If You're Not Going to Be a Good Mother, Use a Glove!

Why do women have children if they don't intend to be good mothers?

I've seen a lot of women who go through great lengths to have babies and then I end up wondering why. After observing them for some time I can only conclude that raising their children was never on their priority list.

Their children only serve as a means to win over people's sympathy. They don't bother teaching them morals. Instead, they do not discipline them for fear that their children might not "like" them for doing so, then turn around and blow up at them, insulting them as they go every time they get up on the wrong side of the bed. Some of them don't even know how to take care of themselves ...let alone raise children!

You don't need a special license or permit to be a parent. Some of the most uneducated people have turned out to be great mothers and fathers. What you really need is love, TLC and the desire to give your children the best education you can give them.

There are some mothers who turn their children into spoiled brats and even allow them to get away with anything. And when you try to explain to them that what they're doing is wrong, they make you believe that there is no problem with their child. Now, if you ask me, not listening to the voice of reason is stupid!

Giving your child everything he/she wants or desires is no way of teaching them honor, respect loyalty or self-worth. I feel that if you teach your children that money doesn't grow on trees, that they can't always get what they want, and that they have to earn certain luxuries or privileges, both you and your children will be happier in the long run.

Common sense is what should dictate at a certain age that a child should have respect for its elders, be able to clean up after him/herself, be tidy, go to bed on time, and of course, try their best at school.

There are yet other mothers who actually think that their young children owe them something. They tell them that they should be pampering them as parents because of what they have done for their children. This is usually very little in comparison with what they demand in return. When confronted, they throw everything they have ever done for their children in their faces as a defense mechanism instead of fulfilling their promises to them. They love to justify themselves on the fact that when they were growing up, their lives weren't that great, so they take it out on their own children. Stupidity at its best?

Instead of trying to give their children what they themselves lacked, they choose to use their past as a way to torment their siblings. In the long run, all they are doing is taking their children's self worth away and replacing it with guilt and a sense of uselessness.

To all these would-be mothers,

Do us all a favor and STOP HAVING KIDS! There are plenty of birth control methods that work ...take your pick and use one. Stop being stupid!!!

That's all for now. Ta-ta!

Some Stupid Women

On one hand, there are women who get married to what they think are wonderful men, but these husbands end up being nothing but jerks; they abuse them physically, mentally and emotionally, because they are nothing but trash themselves, and cannot stand the thought of any woman being better than them ...a strong manifestation of insecurity, don't ya think?

On the other hand, there are women that will go to great lengths to get a guy. They go so far as to even get pregnant in order to trap him. Then they use the his hopes, dreams and morals against him, making him believe that they are willing to eventually change and have the qualities he is really looking for ...this is a form of deceit, and a game they like to play to amuse themselves. It's a way of being in control of him whenever it's convenient. They have complete contempt for his values and use him like a dust rag.

In this second scenario, she not only hurts and damages a good man, but she also uses their children to complete her schemes. Although this leaves life-long scars and damages the child, or children, she has no concern for this, as it is just another means to achieve her own personal gain.

Not only does she damage the man that so many women have such a hard time finding, but she destroys her own children in the process ...not giving it even a second thought as she does it.

Now this is where the stupidity comes in
Women like this are so caught up in being selfish and are so self-centered that they don't realize that "what goes around, comes around". They actually think that they will be spared from the consequences of such actions. They burn out the good men and wonder why they are hated in return. Their defense is always, typically, playing the victim to whoever will listen to them.

If you ask me, these women make it harder for those of us with noble intentions (i.e. those that seek a good life for both and are willing to put in the effort to make a relationship last) to find the right man ...in other words, they should be shot, pissed on and made to pay for the bullets. Lol!

These women are nothing but "parasites" that make people end up concluding that love is some kind of children's fantasy, but that it does not really exist in the adult world.

So my conclusion to all this for all those women and men still looking for that lasting relationship is: Don't give up! If you're not with the right man or woman, keep looking ...I did, and now I'm very happy. Miracles do happen if you just start believing in yourself.

Stay tuned for my next post! And remember, any comments are more than welcome. Thank you.

I've Been Thinking ...About Stupid People, That Is

There are a lot of stupid people in this world, although I don't think they were born that way. I guess it's something that they perfect day to day and little by little by making the wrong decisions, not willing to admit that they are at fault in any way, shape or form. They are perfect in their own mind.

Stupid is What Stupid Does

Let me give you a scenario:
A woman is in a relationship with a man for 14 years. Let's just say that the last 8 years of their relationship were a living hell on earth. Besides his mental and physical abuse, he cheated on her and even had a child with the other woman. Never admitting to having done anything wrong, he insists that it was her fault that he cheated and even did everything in his power to make her feel lower than a bug.

She finally opens up her eyes and ends up kicking his ass out of the house and onto the curb.

...Now, put yourself in her shoes. She finally gets rid of this fungus of a man and she feels free for the first time in a long time and he already had a child from a previous relationship, before going out with her...so the new child is number two.

...Now this is where it get's good, people!
He has decided he is not going to pay child support to the first child's mother. But, of course, the government is smarter than he is (hence his being stupid) and they start deducting what he owes the mother from his cheques. The man (who is oficially stupid in my book, now) gets angry and takes the child's mother to court to ask the judge for his money back because he does not want to pay for child support (...once again, stupid).

In the process of preparing for the trial, he has the nerve to demand help from the woman he cheated on and kicked him out, insisting that she owed it to him.

I don't know about you, but a man that cheats on you and even has a child with another woman, treats you like dirt and even goes so far as to call your handicapped child a "bitch" does not deserve a single ounce of help. As a matter of fact, if he were leaning and about to fall over a cliff I would help him fall and even take pictures ...for posterity, you know! (It's always nice to preserve fond memories of our ex-significant others)

This has been my story about "stupid" for the day.

... stay tuned for more in upcoming posts.

Any comments are more than welcome!