If You're Not Going to Be a Good Mother, Use a Glove!

Why do women have children if they don't intend to be good mothers?

I've seen a lot of women who go through great lengths to have babies and then I end up wondering why. After observing them for some time I can only conclude that raising their children was never on their priority list.

Their children only serve as a means to win over people's sympathy. They don't bother teaching them morals. Instead, they do not discipline them for fear that their children might not "like" them for doing so, then turn around and blow up at them, insulting them as they go every time they get up on the wrong side of the bed. Some of them don't even know how to take care of themselves ...let alone raise children!

You don't need a special license or permit to be a parent. Some of the most uneducated people have turned out to be great mothers and fathers. What you really need is love, TLC and the desire to give your children the best education you can give them.

There are some mothers who turn their children into spoiled brats and even allow them to get away with anything. And when you try to explain to them that what they're doing is wrong, they make you believe that there is no problem with their child. Now, if you ask me, not listening to the voice of reason is stupid!

Giving your child everything he/she wants or desires is no way of teaching them honor, respect loyalty or self-worth. I feel that if you teach your children that money doesn't grow on trees, that they can't always get what they want, and that they have to earn certain luxuries or privileges, both you and your children will be happier in the long run.

Common sense is what should dictate at a certain age that a child should have respect for its elders, be able to clean up after him/herself, be tidy, go to bed on time, and of course, try their best at school.

There are yet other mothers who actually think that their young children owe them something. They tell them that they should be pampering them as parents because of what they have done for their children. This is usually very little in comparison with what they demand in return. When confronted, they throw everything they have ever done for their children in their faces as a defense mechanism instead of fulfilling their promises to them. They love to justify themselves on the fact that when they were growing up, their lives weren't that great, so they take it out on their own children. Stupidity at its best?

Instead of trying to give their children what they themselves lacked, they choose to use their past as a way to torment their siblings. In the long run, all they are doing is taking their children's self worth away and replacing it with guilt and a sense of uselessness.

To all these would-be mothers,

Do us all a favor and STOP HAVING KIDS! There are plenty of birth control methods that work ...take your pick and use one. Stop being stupid!!!

That's all for now. Ta-ta!